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Im a Birth Mom

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megan91

on Jan. 16, 2013 at 1:24 AM

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First off my name is Megan and i have a two year old little boy that i parent. But as of November 19, 2012, i became a birth mom too. I am still trying to heal and there are good days and bad days. I am still with the baby's father that i placed and we are both healing in our own way. He is not my son's father that i parent...but has been there ever since i was six months pregnant with him. I love the adoptive parents very much and i am so glad i chose them. They send me pictures and letters every month, along with emails and phone calls. He is growing so fast and i wish i ha the finances to be able to parent both my children. :-( But i do have hope that one day we wi meet again. hopefully......d

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megan91

on Jan. 16, 2013 at 1:24 AM

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CaileighsMom608

Member on Jan. 16, 2013 at 8:51 AM

Good morning Megan, I am also a birth mom and have children that I do parent. I placed my daughter in June of 2009. If you ever want to chat, ask questions, or just vent I check CM daily.

snowwillow

Member on Jan. 16, 2013 at 11:09 AM

Hi and welcome. Sorry this has happened to you. I am a birth mom for 41 years and in reunion since 2001. I've been there and done that. I have a 35yr old son that I parented. It's really hard to forgive yourself for giving up a child. I think reunion helped me there. I'm so glad I found her and that she has let me in to her life. There can be light at the end of the tunnel.

onethentwins

Gold Member on Jan. 16, 2013 at 1:59 PM

Hi Megan welcome to the group, It's good to meet you.

Fab74

Member on Jan. 16, 2013 at 3:19 PM

Read on and know everyone is here for you to find the support you will need. I'm on 17 years as a bmom. It's a hell of a ride I don't wish on anyone but this place has been my saving grace on many occasions.

Welcome!

vampporcupine

Silver Member on Jan. 16, 2013 at 4:21 PM

Welcome to the group Megan. I lost my first daughter to adoption and have gone on to raise two more daughters.

megan91

Member on Jan. 16, 2013 at 8:39 PM

Thank you all very much. its been a rough desision but i dont have any regrets. i just hope he will understands that i did it out of love and not because i didnt want him. that is my worst fear.

Vikki77

Bronze Member on Jan. 18, 2013 at 12:10 AM

Welcome. I believe that is everyone's worst fear. I am raising 2 children. And I have 2 that I lost to adoption. I hope you enjoy our group.

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CaileighsMom608

Member on Jan. 18, 2013 at 10:25 AM

Twins or 2 seperate adoptions?

Quoting Vikki77:

Welcome. I believe that is everyone's worst fear. I am raising 2 children. And I have 2 that I lost to adoption. I hope you enjoy our group.