So my twins where born January 12th... 6 weeks early. Anyways... For most of my pregnancy most of my family had no idea I was pregnant until thanksgiving day. When they saw me. I only told a few people and had asked them to keep it on the down low bc I know not everyone would have been supportive about my plan to place them for adoption. Well after I had the boys, some of my family came and saw me. And that's great this way I could see for myself who supported my decision and who didn't. Well a few if my family members and went behind my bad to message and contact the adoptive family, asking how the boys where doing, if they could have updates, ect... Ect... I was very hurt by this... And at first didn't know how to handle this or how to tell my family it was wrong and your over stepping you boundaries. Has this happened to anyone else if so... How did u handle this situation? Or how do u think I should handle this..?
on Jan. 25, 2013 at 5:22 AM