How do I tell my sons that they have a sister that I gave away........
I promise one day soon I will tell my whole story but for now I need a bit of advice.
My boys were 11 and 8 when I gave birth to their baby sister. Neither of them even knew I was pregnant. I was only in the hospital 36 hours so they hardly missed me. They have seen pictures of her around my room and in my cell phone but I lied as to who she really is.
I want to tell them SOOOOOO bad so I dont have to hide her anymore. But I am afraid that they will hate me for giving her up because I hate myself for it.
I thought about only telling my oldest because he is more mature but I don't want to put the burden of hiding it from his brother.
Any thoughts, ideas, and/or words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated