I found out I was having a baby when I turned 17. I was too young...way to young for that. I was also married at 17 (second mistake) and I had cheated and it wasn't not my husbands baby. Well my husband wanted nothing to do with my daughter. I had the bright idea to let my parents have her. I was the only child and my parents had wanted more children but it never happened. Anyways, I gave temp custody for her to them. Moved 6 hours away to distance myself. But I relized I could go through with it. I went to get my baby back! My question is, how do all of you do this? How do you cope with seeing pictures of your babies (if you have an open adoption) and know your not there. I lost my husband when I got her back. I was 18 with no job, a new born, and no place to live pretty much; but I had my baby. It was my parents so I mean I could get her back no problem. But you guys can do that. You have lose your babies and want ever get them back in that way.