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Yesterday my sons amom arrived at the airport to see me. She spent the night and went to see her son today, after I we dropped her off at the airport. It was so stressful for me before she arrived and continued until today when I got home and fell in a puddle of tears.Our mutual son has lashed out at his amom in December and has not spoken to her since. He stopped communication with me again since September 2012, and was ready to start again in December, but unfortunate miss-communication prevented that from happening.

She gave information and tried to convince me my son has false memories of an unloved childhood. She thinks he's picking up information from group sessions, and taking them on as his own memories.I don't know if he'll follow up with the plan to see her, but I do hope so, so they can heal. I hope she can validate his feelings.

I felt like she was curious about how I live my life with my family and how my other children grew up. I have very  loving relationships with all my children. They are all grown, happy and doing well.I know my son has so many unresolved issues with me giving him away. It kills me as his mom, I can't fix it for him! All I can do is keep writing words of encouragement to find joy in his life, and he is worthy, and that I will always love him. 

Thanks for the place to vent all this. Will the pain ever stop? It's O.K., I already know the answer.

by on Mar. 2, 2014 at 12:54 AM
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2jeffsmom
by Bronze Member on Apr. 16, 2014 at 12:08 AM
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Quoting DVT:


Quoting 2jeffsmom:


Quoting DVT:

HUGS - I'm so sorry that you're going through this as well! I hope he comes back into your life soon.  It sounds like you were really close this past Dec too.  Thinking of you.

Thanks for your thoughts.It's birthday month, 40! It's a tough one for us both. I'm sending a card early with all the positive words I can think of, and sending a lot of hugs!

I was 1/2 day  from connecting in December! So close, but so,so far. A very sad day with both of us crying. There will come a day again we'll connect.

Praying that it does happen! Birthdays make it even worse! I hope he at least text you thank you for the card or something along those lines, even if it isn't a direct phone call. What you're doing is wonderful! Yikes didn't realize it was that close to connecting too! HUGS during his bday month!

Thank you so much! I really appreciate the support.

ZakkarysMom
by Member on Apr. 16, 2014 at 12:11 AM
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