Here is my story!
My name is Theresa. I am 30 years old and I have four children. My daughter is 11, my son is 4, and my twins are 23 months. I was in a relationship with their for father for four years. Last year May 2007, he decides to with his life with a 19 year old female and he is 34! They are "in-love" and living together now. She has basically taken my place. I am so upset and heart broken regarding this. I just need some advice. The kids have not seen there father in months because of what he has done to me. He physically and verbally abused me, he was never home anyway he was always gone playing poker, fishing, "making music with his brother for 16 hours on Saturday and Sunday", softball, etc you name it! I let him do those things to keep him happy-but he would come home after work and just sleep on me and the children. He brought drugs into our home and he was selling to make extra income. I allowed him because I was truly in-love with him. The courts finally garnished his wages, so I am receiving $1,580.00 per month in child support, but I feel like that is not enough for what I have endured. I am not sure if I want him back or want. I am so jealous of his new relationship. BUT now he wants me back he text me throughout the day with the I love you stories, blah, blah, blah. I have a new guy that I am getting to know but the thoughts are coming back as to giving him a second chance...whatcha think?