I am cancelling my birthday this year

[rach198522]

well, my boufriend usually gets his son on wednesdays and of course this week his son's mother asks him to take him on Thursday, which is my birthday, and he said yes. I don't blame him for wanting to see his son, but it's my birthday, it's my day. i am going to be stuck home alone all day long by myself because everyone i know has to work and my boyfriend takes my car to work, so i am pretty much trapped here. When he has his son, it is all about his son no matter what. which is one of the things i love about him the most is that he is a great father, although i think he babies him wayyyyyyyyyy to much, but that's just my opinion, but there are certain reasons behind him babying him. but besides that, we may not have any money to go out and do anything but it would have been nice just to spend the evening together just me and him and just get all the attention for one day. but since my birthday means absolutely nothing to anyone, i am not having a birthday this year. am i upset he is seeing his son, of course not. am i upset that this crap happened on my birthday, yeah. i dont want him to think im being childish about it or whatever, but wtf? i have my aunt taking my son on sat night. im not a big drinker and stuff and him and one of our roommates pretty much planned without me that we are going to be drinking on sat night, with our roommate and some bimbo one night stand that ive never met that hes having over. i dont want to. i am having my aunt take my son so i could spend a night alone with my boyfriend, not getting wasted with roommates and people i dont know. this is just bs. im ot sure what to do. i told him i dont want to drink on sat but our roommate says oh well, thats what we are doing. im just so ready to yell and cry right now its not even funny. maybe i shouldnt be getting so upset, but alot has happened today and this crap is just piling up on top of it and topping it off. what do i do?

[MixedCooke]

If my birthday falls sometime during the week, I usually wait until the weekend anyway, so just do that!  Have a nice quiet night alone relaxing, doing things you would rather do alone anyway and save the festivities for the weekend!