Am I over reacting??????Tell me what u think....

[mamaun]

My husband has become a salesman part-time to make some extra money. He has been in contact with old friends from Facebook. This did not bother me till he sold some products to an old friend that is a female. It does not bother me that she is female, but that since the sale she has been contacting him on a daily basis through Facebook and calling. Then the other day she texted and told my husband she bought him a present. This really bothers me, I am pregnant and hormonal so I am not sure if it is just the hormones. PLEASE HELP!!!

[proud_mamaof3]

ummm hell no  iwould tell that girl to back off in a nice way she still does then this 4'9 mama will go off 

[ljpaszek]

I trust my hubs. He has several female friends

[proud_mamaof3]

i trust my so but not a lot woman specialy ones that call and buy him gifts in my input only woman need by him a gift is his wife gf or family not a friend but my man i fully trust known him 13 yrs 

[mamaun]

I absolutely trust my hubby, been together for 10 years. I just dont trust this girl, she seems to be coming on to him and my hubby doesnt always pick up on ques from women that like him. Maybe I am letting my hormones get the best of me. Honestly this is all new to me I have never been a jealous person, but for some reason I have been driving my self nuts about this girl. Something about her rubs me the wrong way.

 

[Mayumimommy]

She is acting inappropriately towards a married man. She should know this and shame on her. Your husband should reject the gift and tell her he cannot accept it and start to not take her calls and ignore most emails. If she doesn't get the message then you can get blunt with her.

[BusyB4thm]

why would someone huy a married man a gift unless it was his birthday... it seems a little fishy and i would be unsettled as well

[Geminisahm]

The only time I think it is acceptable for females to give my husband gifts is at Christmas. Which they do . A lot of ladies are attracted to my husband. He is a flirt. I know it. But i trust him. When i had an issue with a female friend of his I discussed it with him and he put an end to it. give him the benifit of the doubt. If he doesn't fix it.... Well then that's when i would handle it my way :)

[Alysha78]

O  NO, NO,NO....THAT IS so NOT OK. fACEBOOK IS A NICE THING IN REGARDS TO FINDING PEOPLE U LOST TOUCH WITH AND SUCH, AND IT IS ALSO A big PROBLEM  WHEN IT COMES TO  FLIRTING AND GETTING JUST A LITTLE TO FRIENDLY, BUT BUYINY HIM A GIFT???!!!! gIRL THAT IS A TOTAL RED FLAG AND NEEDS TO BE STOPPED IMMEDIATELY. wHAT DOES HE SAY ABOUT IT? iF HE DONE DOING THE SALE THEN THERE SHOULD BE NO MORE NEED TO COMMUNICATE WITH HER. ESPECIALLY IF SHES BUYING HIM THINGS AND CHATTING DAILY. KEEP HIM IN CHECK.  HAS HE EVER CHEATED ON U? i DONT WANT TO MAKE U PARANOID, BUT YES, THAT IS SOMETHING TO BE CONCERNED ABOUT. HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT FOR YOU.

 

[tinapa]

 I would respond to her on his facebook,  Tell her thank you for buying your husband a gift but you can take care of doing that yourself  And unless it is busniess please do not connect your husband,  If your husband is wise he will back you up on that.  When one of my husband ex girlfriend (this was years ago) was putting notes on his car and her phone number.  I told him if he didn't set her straight that the next note was mine to respond to.  Never heard from her again

 

[aschwarz06]

i would not be ok with this! forget being pregnant the fact that you have never worried about anyone before but something about this woman is bothering you should be a red flag! follow your gut its always right! you could say somthing to DH too, dont accuse him because you are probably right and he doesnt even notice her coming onto him.  but let him know that you are not comfortable with the way she is acting and ask him to ask her to stop.