After reading all the posts on here, I figured this would be a good topic for you to post your need for advice.
Jbugsbabydawl - http://www.cafemom.com/group/chat247
i really need some relationship advice i have two daughters one that is almost six and one who is 17 months they both have diffrent fathers i was really young when i had my first then blinded by fake love with my second so now im single with two daughters this time..well any way my oldest daughters father hes a good guy and we kinda have been off an on since i was pregnant with her besides the two years i was with my youngest father...i am always the one who calls it off and with him im always confused should i stay or should i go some times i feel like hes just my friend i think hes cute but i have no intamit attraction with him its nice to hang out but i only want to with my girls and i dont wanna kiss or hug or cuddle an most deffinitly not have sex my parents keep on puting it in my head tht hes a great guy i ned to be with him because hes my daughters father and because hell take care of me and he has a good family but im just so confused i cant go with my gut or fallow my heart because it dosent tell me nothing i have nooooooo idea i do know he loves me but i just dont feel the same back i care for him but idk in what way idk if i should just give up and let go an move on please helpppp i tihnk some times if he didnt mention geting togeather or my parents didnt i wouldnt think of it at all
hi im a Dad looking for someone elses opinion on our little problem we have with my wife or more like a disagreement. im originally from Guatemala and my wife is from here the US , we have to little girls 4 and 2 yrs old. sometimes when we go out on dates we use a lady that used to be our neighbore and became our friend or more like my wifes friend , and one of those nights that we went to pick up our girls i happen to notice that she kissed our girls in the mouth and i was kind of upset cuz i dont think that is normal. i dont think she is doing it for any bad reason i know she loves our girls and she is really good with them and our girls like going there and spend time with her, but is just that little detail that i dont like and my wife has told me that , that is normal in the white people world . well that is why im here i want to know if im being weird or what cuz it does bothers me and like i said i know there is not a baad intention behind that kiss but i just dont see it rite. please if anyone can help me understand better how this is normal ?? thanks
For starters, I have a 9-month old daughter and I began NuvaRing on Feb 15th of this year. My husband and I used condoms regularly until I got on the NR. I took a blood test on the 14th (the day before) at my OB appointment to make sure I wasn't pregnant before starting it (came back negative). We used condoms during sex until about day 4 of NR use. My last period was from Jan. 19th to the 25th and I began NR exactly 21 days after the last day of my LMP. It is obviously now March 2nd and no sign of my period... Which it's now been 36 days since I had a period. My NR is still in because I'm still in my 3-week ring use cycle, but could I be pregnant?! I really need some feedback. Thanks!!
How can I talk to my toddler and get her to listen without yelling at her or threatening her?
By threat I mean to take something away send her on punishment smack her hand!
Sometimes it seams the only thing that works is yelling and I hate to do that! I grew up in a family that all was done was yelling hitting and punishing! I dont wanna go down the same road! ![]()
I am a stressball mess and have no one to talk to. I just recently had my 2nd son with my husband on feb. 4. Since then, things have been good and I really enjoy the new baby. I do not feel like I'm falling into post partum depression. However, I do feel like I'm falling into some sort of anxiety disorder and am just feeling too overwhelmed and stressed. I never get a moment to myself anymore, seriously not even a MOMENT. Tonight I was on the couch, looking at Pinterest on my phone, after I'd just spent all day freaking out about a paper I had due.(I'm a full time student and have a full time job). Our 6 yr old was in bed and the newborn had just finished a bottle. My husband looks over and goes "WHAT are you DOING?" like he's irritated with me for being on my phone. I told him and asked what's wrong and he said, "You are just ALWAYS on your phone or messing with the kids, it's annoying." I wondered if he was needing more from me and he said "no, it's just annoying to see you on your phone." Now, I know this seems ridiculous, but this sent me into an anxiety tail spin that had honestly been brewing all day. I have 2 big mommas boys, a great dane, and a brand new puppy. I very rarely get any down time. SO...what teeny eensy bit I have, I spend looking at facebook or pinterest on my phone. I don't watch tv because he wants to watch his shows or makes fun of the shows I watch.and it ruins it. I dont have any other hobbies but the gym to try and get the baby weight off. I'm feeling suffocated. I'm startng to want to run away from my family (in reality i wouldnt). I just got criticized on my last bit of pleasurable me time! How do I keep my sanity without having some sort of breakdown? how do I tell my husband ,"I have to get away from all of u for a bit" without sounding hurtful or like I'm cazy? Help! I'm losing the woman inside me!
Hi! I am sitting her tired of not finding any answers on google!?! Maybe some other mom(s) out there may have a clue. My 5 year old vomited Saturday night 1x, Monday am 1x, Wednesday am 1x and just now. On Tuesday noticed some red areas on cheeks but closer to ears, literally disappeared by the time I found my phone to take a picture. Went to PCP on Tuesday they did a exam, tested urine and said it was a virus. She has had no fever this entire time, and that rash keeps coming and going as well. The rash seems to have nothing to do with the vomiting and at first I thought maybe fifth disease but idk with no fever and it coming and going. She does good for a few hours at a time and seems like her normal self and then is extremely tired. I just want my little girl to feel better and would like to know what is wrong with her. Any help would be great. THANKS.


- jbugsbabydawl
on Jul. 23, 2008 at 12:19 PM