with my husband working up north for weeks at a time we decided that two kids was perfect. now that my son is 3.5 and my daughter is 1.5 im starting to really want a 3rd. my husband had a visectomy but said he would reverse it if we really wanted it. if we do this i want it done now so that they are all 2 years apart. we want to travel a lot as well and im not sure how much this will affect us if we have a third. how many of you have 3 kids? do you find it difficult with your husbands away all the time? is it a lot harder than2?? i love my two we have so much fun and i have an arm for each. i love that i can give them all my attention and nobody is left out. im torn as to weather three would be even better or just too much
We have two. I am in the same situation. I am thinking about it, seems like it should be now or never and the pressure is on to make a decision......hmmm. It is a big one. I'm interested to see the replies you get.
I have 6 kids. Twins that are 9, 8, 7, 6, and 1 year old. I personally would say it is easier to have a kid when your other kids are old enough to help more and listen better in public. it is hard to chase more then 2 kids and keep an eye on the others when they are acting up. but now with my 1 yr old my girls will help me with him at home and in public.


- lizzy.leigh
on Jan. 18, 2012 at 1:24 AM