CafeMom Back to School
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These are a few of our Back to School DO'S and Don'ts.
Do - Sneak fun notes like "Have a good day" into lunch boxes as an extra surprise.
Don't - Take a chance with meltdowns over misplaced belongings -- label everything from clothing and shoes to school supplies.
Do - Get organized by visiting the school and meeting the teachers.
Don't - OD on glittery, sparkly school supplies
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Don't - turn on the TV untill after everyone is ready for school, have ate breakfast, and brushed their teeth.
Do - make and freeze items your child can throw in the microwave for a quick, hot breakfast. scrambled eggs would be good, You can also pre-cook bacon and divide it into individual portions. Make french toast and let it cool, cut each pice into 3 slices and place 3-6 strips in baggies and toss in freezer. Viola! french toast sticks with out the cost of buying in the store.

DO~ make sure the kids get enough sleep.
DO~ establish a good back to school routine
DO~ make sure homework is done before the TV/Playstation/nintendo comes on.
DO~make sure you lay out your clothes and take your bath the night before to avoid unnecessary hassles in the A.M
DONT~ forget your lunch/lunch money
DONT~ call home asking mom to bring your homework because you forgot it...lol
DONT~ forget your books/backpack/homework at school cause mom aint driving you back to get it...lol
DONT~ forget to have a great day!
~Amber~ SAHM to 3 GREAT human kids! Austin 7, Kyler 6, & Brylee 3
& 7 non-human babies; Sadie-red golden retriever, Kobe-blue indian ringneck, sulley (like from monsters Inc.) lutino cockatiel, Arnie the Quaker, Hahna the hahns macaw, Lulu the quaker, and Belle the cockatiel

Many have forgotten this truth, but you must not forget it.
You remain responsible, forever, for what you have tamed.
-Antoine de Saint Exupery
do make sure they know what the teachers name is
do make sure they know the class room number
dont make a huge deal over them being gone all day it only makes them nervous
dont let them see you cry
do get everything, i.e. backpack, clothes, lunches, ready the night before.
do enforce a reasonable bedtime on school nights
don't give your 5th grader a big hug and kiss in front of all her friends on the first day of school.
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Do teach your kids the importance of not cheating.
Don't tell them 98% is bad because you were expecting 100%
Do help them with homework
Do hear them every time they have a question.
Not only am I a mom of a fourth grader, I also work at our local school where Kindergartners on up to eigth graders attend. Other than preparations such as laying out clothes the night before, getting enough sleep, etc., I have some suggestions for all parents that will make both the student and the school happy.
1) Read the student-parent handout and become familiar with the school's rules. I've seen many preteens sent home because their attire did not conform to the school dress code as a result of not being aware of school rules.
2) Don't allow your child to wear flip-flops. These are not safe when kids are running around the playground. In addition to the lack of support for the feet, your child is more susceptible to stickers and bee-stings.
3) Go through the papers that are sent home with your child. Fill-out and sign paperwork as required and return promptly. Don't prograstinate!
4) Get involved! Join your child's school's PTA or PTO group.
Have a wonderful school year!
Do have a plan befpre school starts , give them the schedule on getting ready for bed and what EXACTLY to do in the morning. Like my kids cannot come to the table for breakfast without shoes.
Do:Help with homework but dont do the work
Do:Have kids eat a healthy breakfast
Do:Tell them to have a great day at school.Every morning I tell mine to have a great day,learn behave and have fun.
Dont:Put too much pressre on your child.
Dont:Let kids stay up too late
Again my daughter isn't old enough for school yet but I'm taking notes like crazy!
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Do eat a healthy breakfast before school
Don't go to bed late
Do get plenty of sleep the night before
Don't forget to pack you lunch for school
Do good in school
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