I am 27 but was raised around adults, not children. My fiance is 14 yrs older than I & we have 7 children between us. 3 together, 2 stepchildren with us part-time & he has a 20 yr old locally & I have a 9 yr old out of state. 20, 10, 9, 8, 5, 3, & 1yr. I've been on this site reading & replying to articles for a yr or two intermittently. I have just recently decided to become more involved. Things are crazy staying with his family & I needed to find an outlet/support.