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Son 100% trained with bare butt, pees in underwear or pull up

Posted by on Aug. 6, 2012 at 12:04 PM
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So, my 3.5 year old son is 100% potty trained with a bare butt.  I heard a ton about that method, so that's what we did.  If he's naked from the waist down he goes to the toilet every single time.  If he's wearing a pull up, he'll pull that down to poop in the toilet, too, which is great.  He's been like this for about a month.

The problem is when we put anything on his bottom, he pees in it.  ANYTHING.  Pull up, tight underwear, boxers, loose shorts, anything that touches his butt, he pees in it.  Any other survivors of the bare butt training that can help us make the bridge to underwear?

Posted by on Aug. 6, 2012 at 12:04 PM
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Andrewsmom70
by Group Owner on Aug. 6, 2012 at 6:05 PM
Bite the bullet, put him in underwear and retrain. It's one of the downfalls to naked bottom training and is a common problem to that option.
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christalrae
by on Aug. 12, 2012 at 2:22 AM

Oh I am fearing this. Since your son is older and likely to understand, can you reward him with a sticker chart or something every time he keeps him underwear/pants dry or go pee pee on the potty? Just a thought. Also I have heard of the potty pony training pants helping kids understand that they have to keep potty pony dry. I haven't ever used them so no personal experience but I was thinking about trying them. My son just started training 5 days ago. He is almost 21 months old and so far as what I have seen I think this may be a hurdle for us as well.

Christylove171
by on Aug. 12, 2012 at 5:36 AM

I was gonna ask this same question hahaha. My daughter does the same thing. As soon as I put a diaper/underwear/etc. she pees in them!. Without them she always goes potty!!. I didn't leave her without a diaper to train her, I did the whole pulling down the undies etc. etc. Let me know if anything worked for you.  

Or lets see if someone post some tips hahaha

Andrewsmom70
by Group Owner on Aug. 12, 2012 at 8:15 AM
Keep her in underwear all the time during the day- no diapers or pull ups.

Let her pick out what underwear to wear and remind her that Dora or whatever character is on them doesn't want to get wet.




Quoting Christylove171:

I was gonna ask this same question hahaha. My daughter does the same thing. As soon as I put a diaper/underwear/etc. she pees in them!. Without them she always goes potty!!. I didn't leave her without a diaper to train her, I did the whole pulling down the undies etc. etc. Let me know if anything worked for you.  

Or lets see if someone post some tips hahaha


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bckwdsbarbie06
by on Aug. 17, 2012 at 2:57 PM

i agree that retraining is most likely the best way to go. we did pullups on my son and we had to retrain in undies. its a horrible mess but after a few days they will get it. you might have to put your child in the undies and then set a timer for every 30 minutes or so and take them to the potty. make a HUGE deal about it and they will get it. hopefully you don't have carpet it your house! lol good luck

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