Does anyone know how to get rid of negative energy in people. I have noticed I am greatly affected by this. My mood goes from up to down dramatically and then I start getting pains. I can't just stay away because one is my dh and the other is my 15yr old son. Neither one believe in anything spiritual so they wouldnt be able to do anything about it themselves. My dh is already havent it take a toll on him with his bad back and always feeling tired and stressed. I believe most of his symptoms would disappear If I could get rid of the negative. My son just seems angry and grumpy at the world I know he's a teenager but he takes it to extreme. Any suggestions?
That sounds pretty rough! Have you tried talking to either of them about it (even though you probably have)? My ex's moods took a serious toll on my body. I felt bad hormones daily - adrenaline running all the time.
The only thing I can think of is to be sure that you carve out time and space for yourself and be sure to have uplifting and understanding friends/family to also help you when you need a boost. Some people find that spirituality boosts them. Is there something that the two of them can do for fun together - a hobby or class? Or maybe a family thing you can all do? Is it too hokey to suggest like a game night? I know some people don't enjoy those things....we play games here all the time but my daughter is only nine.
Yeah sometimes it gets pretty rough LOL!!! I think they are just so much alike that neither are never in the wrong. They both like playing video games but never get together to do this because hubbys work schedule and sons sleep schedule. I have visioned a golden protection light around my hubby and that seemed to work so maybe I will try it on my son as well to stop so much negativity in. Thank you for your response.
I know this might be a stretch, but read into crystal and color therapy.
There are a lot of ways you can hang different types of crystals or precious stones in your home that can help keep bad energies at bay. And best of all, you can just do it without saying anything. Most of them will easily accomodate the aesthetic value of almost any room, and you could just say, if asked, you got it because you thought it'd look nice. You can use them as paper weights, in the middle of nic-nac displays...put them in hanging plants...whatever! Just make sure you cleanse them properly when you feel like the crystal or stone might be losing its effects. Also, color therapy can be useful too, some of the colors you decorate your home with can sometime affect a mood or response in a positive way and people don't even realize it.
I don't know as much about color therapy, (a bit of research on google should help you with that though) but here is a really great site for crystals and stones, and how to care for them:
http://www.rainbowcrystal.com/
Good luck! Try to keep your own good energy about you!
Cook! Thats right. Start blessing all the food and add some seas salt into the food. Next light some inscense in all the rooms. Ask the smoke to smudge everyone and everything in the room. Have them take a sea salt bath. If they are bringing it in from the outside, then the negativity wont be able to survive in a house that's metaphysically clean. I also smudge the kid's while they are sleeping. Its a simpler way with out their complaining about it. Hope this helped some.
Lori
I totally know where your coming from. My hubby is one of the most negative persons I know. And he can take my mood from happy camper to depressed housewife in a matter of seconds. He just doesn't seem to have any joy in him. It's really sad. But as the years go by I've pretty much learned to ignore it and do what I need to do to feel happy and not let him bring me down, although I have to admit sometimes he does bring me down even still.
When you figure out what works let me know. :-)
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They also call them Energy Vampires. They are so negative they dont have energy left for themselfs so they start sucking energy off others. Best thing for you is to stay away from them BUT If you cant best thing to do is to cleanse your home and yourself with Sage smoke even your loved ones.....I do this every month if not more.
Lady Sarai
There is no way to get rid of negativty in someone unless they want to do it and either ask you to help cleanse them or they cleanse themselves. You can't do so without their permission in my opinion.
But you can protect yourself by groundign yourself prior to meeting up with the person (like its a particular person in your life that you feel is negative) or if you don't know who it is or its an all-the-time thing, like someone you live with you can wear or carry a crystal. Also try smudging sage around your body in order to remove the effects of the negativty.
Some people also can envision a wall around themselves, something safe and secure, so that the negativty cannot get past that sheild and to them.
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I would suggest shielding your self, smudging, calling on everyone's guides/guardians, angels and archangels for help and healing.
Also, use lavendar and rose scents everywhere. Its aromatherapy. Kind of hard to be a crab ass around lavendar.
Quoting Sarai-Divine:
They also call them Energy Vampires. They are so negative they dont have energy left for themselfs so they start sucking energy off others. Best thing for you is to stay away from them BUT If you cant best thing to do is to cleanse your home and yourself with Sage smoke even your loved ones.....I do this every month if not more.
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on Sep. 12, 2008 at 6:01 PM