My husband passed away September 29, 2011. Long story short he took his own life via the cops. Well his sister has asked the I let my 2 little girls ages 4 years and 21 months if she "have them" every other weekend. Almost like she has visitation with them. She has 5 kids of her own and is very good with my daughters. I just don't know if it is good for my daughters to be reminded of their daddy in such a strong way.
Every time they come home they have not taken a bath, and they are always sick when they come home. They have started a 3 ring binder and there is a new picture of their daddy in it when ever they come back. There are no pictures of me or of Jeff and I together in this binder.
I just don't know what to think here. Can someone please help me out?