Mother-in-law or Monster-in-law???

[buddahsangel]

I need help!  I have a MONSTER-IN-LAW of the worst kind.  Whatever I do I am doing it wrong all the time she is around.  I have been told by family that she said that I am a horrible mother.  That she thinks I got pregnant to trap her son.  My husband and I have been married for 5 years.  I didn't get pregnat until right before our fourth anniversary.  I have been told by alot of people, the doctor included that I am doing a wonderful job and that I am a great mom.  What should I do?  She has another son that she is trying to break his relationship out.  He and his girlfriend has both told her so many time to butt out, but she won't.  I need to do something, but I don't want to alienate my daughter from her.  The only reason I don't, is because of her 11 year old aunt.  Her aunt just loves her to pieces, but I don't know how much more I can take.  Please help I need advice.

[mommyof2EO]

that's a tough one. my mother in law is always in my business. she will talk about me to other people when i am sitting right there. my man's problem is that he doesn't see his mom as such a bad person. I don't even like going around here because she was always judging my decisions with my children! Some in laws are crazy. I can't give you any good advice on how to get them to stop because nothing works for me either!!