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TO CLARIFY WHAT THIS GROUP IS ABOUT....

May. 12, 2008 at 8:22 AM by LovelyBabyNMama
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It is about LOVING YOUR HUSBAND.

It's about telling why your husband is amazing and the POSITIVES about him. It's about telling the other ladies something sweet he did for you or you did for him...

Not venting about him, not saying he's an asshole, or he's lazy, or he forgets about you on holidays and it hurts your feelings, or how he stayed out an hour later and didn't call you or answer his phone...etc.
It's also not about debating how a marriage SHOULD be, nor is it about preaching how a woman SHOULD act towards her husband, you aren't above anyone, so don't judge, every marriage works differently.

We understand that husbands may do silly things, hurt our feelings, make us upset sometimes, etc....no husband is perfect. The point is though, this isn't the place to discuss it.

The rules aren't up for debate, if you don't like the rules, nobody is keeping you here. It doesn't matter if there are 5 or 5 million people in here, so "you just lost a bunch of members...yada yada" isn't a big deal to me or the admin. We are getting back to the original concept of the group.

Don't message me whining about the admin locking or deleting posts, because I'm not going to respond, plus I'm standing behind their decisions.

Any negative posts (no matter how petty or outrageous they are) will be deleted. If you don't like it, nobody is keeping you here.

For those that message me about "Why was my post deleted or locked?"---because either I or one of the admin didn't find it applicable to this group. Sorry, it is what it is.

For those that message me about "I'm leaving the group" --Goodbye and have a nice day!

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	by luckystark31 on May. 12, 2008 at 8:36 AM hi i'm katie mom of 2 and very happily married going on 5yrs on the 17th this month! just wanted to share what he did for me at our wedding! well when we were about to exchange our vows........he played his guitar and sang the song "i wanna grow old with you" from the wedding singer!!! he had me in tears and the whole wedding party!!! he still sings to me and the kids! god i LOVE this man and we will be growing OLD together! LOL Katie
	by MommyofTwins616 on May. 12, 2008 at 10:01 AM I hope it doesn't go back to no venting about your husband. That is why I left once. I sometimes need people who love their husbands to encourage me to look at maybe what I did or need to do. Not to agree with me but to tell me maybe I am overreacting. You can't get that from a bash your hubby group. I look for why I am lucky and maybe am just having a bad day. That is why I come here so yes on occasion I vent but I would hope that with everyone in the group I would get advice that woul help me not tell me to get out. While I do understand it shouldn't be a constant thing ( which I don't) I believe its shouldn't be excluded from this group. We are all human and I know I am far from perfect. Hope I didn't ofent but I wanted to explain my opinion.
	by Angie430 on May. 12, 2008 at 10:06 AM Its funny but that silly song gets me evrytime! I love Adam sandler, good for you guys Quoting luckystark31: hi i'm katie mom of 2 and very happily married going on 5yrs on the 17th this month! just wanted to share what he did for me at our wedding! well when we were about to exchange our vows........he played his guitar and sang the song "i wanna grow old with you" from the wedding singer!!! he had me in tears and the whole wedding party!!! he still sings to me and the kids! god i LOVE this man and we will be growing OLD together! LOL Angie
	by caseykay131 on May. 12, 2008 at 10:11 AM my hubby for our wedding was so sweet.. he though that because i got a new dress to start my life inwith him that he needed to get a new tux, to start his lifeo ff with me... he was thinking that if he got a rental,what if the person or people that used them before him did not have a great marriage... he did not want to be jinxed... so what he did after the wedding said it all.... he went and got my dress and his tux preserved in the same box. that way they can last forever, togeather... this all being his idea.. how sweet is that... i love my hubby with all my heart.... we are a perfect pair....
	by LouisianaKitten on May. 12, 2008 at 10:49 AM Quoting MommyofTwins616: I hope it doesn't go back to no venting about your husband. That is why I left once. I sometimes need people who love their husbands to encourage me to look at maybe what I did or need to do. Not to agree with me but to tell me maybe I am overreacting. You can't get that from a bash your hubby group. I look for why I am lucky and maybe am just having a bad day. That is why I come here so yes on occasion I vent but I would hope that with everyone in the group I would get advice that woul help me not tell me to get out. While I do understand it shouldn't be a constant thing ( which I don't) I believe its shouldn't be excluded from this group. We are all human and I know I am far from perfect. Hope I didn't ofent but I wanted to explain my opinion. There are PLENTY of other groups to vent in...I can give you a few links if you like =) This specific group is NOT for venting =) Thanks!!! Are you a mother raising your children with "old fashioned" values and standards? Click Here to join our group!!!!
	by LoveLiveLaugh7 on May. 12, 2008 at 2:14 PM Sad that you have so many rules for your group...i found it to be a great place to be positive and upset if need be. You just lost a bunch of ladies, that's for sure!!
	by raina on May. 12, 2008 at 2:25 PM Quoting LoveLiveLaugh7: Sad that you have so many rules for your group...i found it to be a great place to be positive and upset if need be. You just lost a bunch of ladies, that's for sure!! I agree... I love my Husband to death but he isn't perfect and sometimes I need to vent. Now since we need to "CLARIFY" things like little kids...im out of this group. Are you caring for a loved one with Cancer? Come join my group where yu can get advice on how to tell the kids or just to talk to other moms going through the same thing! http://www.cafemom.com/group/CancerCaregiver This signature is very tall. Try to keep it shorter than this green section. This signature is very tall. Try to keep it shorter than this green section.
	by LouisianaKitten on May. 12, 2008 at 2:43 PM Quoting raina: I agree... I love my Husband to death but he isn't perfect and sometimes I need to vent. Now since we need to "CLARIFY" things like little kids...im out of this group. The rules were clear when joining the group...just because they werent followed for awhile doenst make it "ok" Im sorry you feel you have to leave! Are you a mother raising your children with "old fashioned" values and standards? Click Here to join our group!!!!
	by LouisianaKitten on May. 12, 2008 at 2:48 PM Quoting LoveLiveLaugh7: Sad that you have so many rules for your group...i found it to be a great place to be positive and upset if need be. You just lost a bunch of ladies, that's for sure!! For every woman that leaves the group because she cant vent about or bad mouth her husband here...there are 3 more who joined because they are sick of seeing and hearing the bad mouthing. Those are the group members we are looking for to begin with. Im sorry if you feel this group isnt for you. Are you a mother raising your children with "old fashioned" values and standards? Click Here to join our group!!!!
	by bluestarr80 on May. 12, 2008 at 2:55 PM Good post lovelybabynmama! Too bad restating the original rules is resulting in drama. There is a BIG difference in trying to find a solution to a marital problem and then just whining/complaining. I think it's important for women to post stating their problem and asking for a solution or ideas to help the problem become less of an issue in their lives. It's another thing for women to name call their spouses, whine about how hard it is to be a mommy/wife and then play the victim. That just gets annoying and brings the group down. It's a shame that some women here do not understand the difference!