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toxicmother0613

Jul. 4, 2008 at 9:46 AM by toxicmother0613
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Me and my DH just got married about two weeks ago, and just yesterday I found out I'm one week pregnant right now. I don't know how I'm gonna tell my husband this he said he didn't want any kids for at least a year. Any advice?

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rachel_07

by rachel_07 on Jul. 4, 2008 at 9:51 AM

just tell him if he didnt want kids then he shouldnt have had sex and its his baby too

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KennsWifey

by KennsWifey on Jul. 4, 2008 at 10:12 AM

First of all.....congrats!!
Just tell him.  He's your DH, and should know that when having sex, pregnancy is always a possibility.  Be reall upbeat about it when you tell him, don't let him know you were worried to tell him.  He'll come around and when that baby's born he'll wonder why he wanted to wait!
Good Luck!

Hannabelles_Mom

by Hannabelles_Mom on Jul. 4, 2008 at 12:47 PM

They all say that they want to wait. Once your are preggo they are usually very happy : )  My husband and I waited 7 yrs between our children.
.Just tell him!!!
runnyvenom

by runnyvenom on Jul. 4, 2008 at 12:55 PM

Question:  Is he the type that would make this occassion awful for you because of this?  I hope and pray that this will have a good outcome.  I understand the need to be married a year but life happens.  In this case, life really did happen.  Say a little prayer before you talked to him.  Good Luck and God Bless.
MawMawKelton

by MawMawKelton on Jul. 4, 2008 at 1:42 PM

First off... congrats on becoming a new Mommy-to-be.

Be totally honest with him. Better to start out the marriage with straight honesty.
It is big news but don't bve afraid to tell him, it takes two to make a baby. Its not your fault so don't feel guilty or anything like that, ok ?

If your scared of becoming a new Mommy, tell him. Set down and tell eachother how ya feel about this big event that is now reality.

Your nervousness and fear will soon turn to excitement .

Congrats again !  I'm happy for you !
I bet you will make a great Mommy and him a great Daddy.
Hollar at me if ya want to.
allaboutve

by allaboutve on Jul. 4, 2008 at 2:00 PM

Congratulations!

Same thing when DH and i got married, we were going to wait at least a year to have kids.  yeah well...we were married in october and prego by febuary!  i was actually the one that was upset and he was cool and happy.  timing was terrrible but what can you do? 

and technically you have 9 months right?  its not a full year but its close!  lol.
i hope it works out.
~Ve~

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