My husband is 13 yrs older than I am, while he was in his 40's it was never an issue. Now, he is in his 50's and wow, things have changed. I have so many things I want to do that he cannot do or has no desire to do because of age and his health issues. It depresses me knowing I am in my prime years (almost 40) and giving up those dreams of things I want to do. I don't want to "run around with a group of people doing those things (his ex wife used to be a real wild one). Sky diving, parasalaing, horse back riding, ya know my bucket list... Our kids range from 25 to 6. The older ones have moved on to college or on their own or have their own family at 38 I was a grandma. At home is our 13 yr old and 5 yr old. He can't keep up with their activities, he tries, but age is now a factor. I love him dearly and always have, but things are changing. It seems like I am living my life through my kids. I want to find middle ground, but it just seems impossible. Thank you so very much for reading this.