My ss is 6 years old. He comes to stay with us 6 weeks out of the summer because he lives in Texas. He doesn't come for a consecutive two weeks, just 3, 2 week periods.The BM is not a Christian and hates that we take him to church. Usually we take him to church and pray with him because he likes to go with us. But, this visit has been totally different. He told us that his mom does not want him to go to church or pray. So, yesterday we were at Taco Bell eating lunch and we all prayed before the meal. My step-son seemed apprehensive at first, but then he said okay. Later on that night the BM called to talk to him and it was like his whole personality changed. He told her he wanted to come home and he didn't like being with us. He told her he wasn't having fun and that he was sad. (He was talking on speakerphone through all of this). Then he said, "Mom, I want to tell you something." He took her off speakerphone and held the phone to his ear and said, "Tell Dad to stop making me pray." She couldn't understand him because he didn't want us to hear him and he was speaking quietly. He then put her back on speakerphone and said, "Tell my dad to stop making me pray." Then she said, "Oh of course I will tell your dad that. It is your choice to pray and if you don't want to pray then you don't have to. Don't let your dad do anything that you don't want to do." My DH took the phone after my SS said bye to her. My DH argued with her and told her we weren't making him do anything that he doesn't want to do. What makes me mad is my SS has no clue why his BM tells him that he shouldn't go to church. He told us that multiple times yesterday. She is so manipulating and making him feel so pressured to do what she says. She then e-mailed us and told us we were hurting him and making his visits really bad because we are making him pray. I want to take her back to court because religion isn't in the court order, but I don't know. Any advice?