IEP WRONG placement suggestion

[bebita]

Tomorrow I will have the second ARD meeting.  The placement they are proposing for my 3.5 yrs. old son is completelly innapropriate.  He was recently disgnost with Aspergers, Central Auditory processing disorder, aphraxia and motor planning difficulties resulting in motor and self help delays.  My son is verbal, his IQ is average, he doesn't have any extreme behavioral problems sho why not follow the law and provide him with the LRE?

The proposed placements are with children who are none verbal, they are still using the pictures system.  Few of them are MR, the teacher in PPCD has to wipe the saliva they are drowling.

My son is terrible today, he is not letting me do any of the final preparations for tomorrw, I can't even make any phone calls because he is just giving me hell today.  I am loosing my mind, how can I make an intelligent argument to the IEP members when I can't even concentrate on reading or even writting, he is just not understanding that I must get my final dots together.  I am so frustrated right now.  I called my husband's family members to help me out just keeping an eye on him and Nope it's just me.  Husband is working, my cats are driving me crazy withtheir obnoxious behavior, I hate my life right now, my son, God bless him just doesn't know what he is doing to me.

I am loosing my mind, I am under so much stress my life seem so freaking bad, I know I am beyond frustration and udner alot of stress and this should pass but don't the member of the IEP team realize that an inappropriate placement can send a parent down spirol to hell?  Why do they even suggest it?  I have a complelling argument of pre-determination but why do I have to go there, don't they know how difficult it is already to be a parent of a special needs child?