Does anyone feel like they shouldn't have another child because of their first and only and even if not the only child they have has special needs? Is this some sort of bad depression or is it normal to feel like this? I would just think having another child when you have such a young child or baby having such a hard time with basic things would be selfish ( not to call mothers who had others selfish, just my feelings concerning me and my son). I recently miscarried and felt a big relief =(. I was being careful but got pregnant anyway and completely freaked out, it was probsbly stress caused in all reality. Will I always feel this way?