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Free trip to Mexico...

Posted by on Feb. 22, 2012 at 2:10 AM
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My 13 year old daughter received a full scholarship  to Mexico from our church.  She would travel with church members to Mexico and then work on building houses for 4 days during spring break.  I would love for her to go but my husband says I am insane, NO way is his daughter going to Mexico without him. He cant even believe I would consider this.  My daughter is heartbroken since she can't go... Would you let your daughter go to Mexico with her church group?

Posted by on Feb. 22, 2012 at 2:10 AM
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psych_mom
by Group Mod - Stacy on Feb. 22, 2012 at 7:26 AM
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As long as there are going to be plenty of other responsible adults from the church going, I would. I know that it is a dangerous place to go, but they don't usually take them to the places where they're fighting over drugs, they go to where the poorest people live, off the beaten path and help them. This could be a once in a lifetime opportunity for her.
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auroragold
by Group Mod on Feb. 22, 2012 at 7:42 AM

Mexico - - is a pretty dangerous place these days. My answer would be provided AFTER I researched where in Mexico they were going, security, etc.

bellasdesserts
by Lauren on Feb. 22, 2012 at 7:52 AM

Depends on which part of Mexico.  There is a lot of drug vilence in certain areas, literally thousands have been murdered in the border areas and west coast areas, many tourists.  We got to Cancun every year, and there aren't those problems there.  Every country has its problems including ours.  I would do research on which area the church is going to, and make the decision.  You shoud always do this kind of research when your children are involved IMHO.

cleanmoss
by Silver Member on Feb. 22, 2012 at 4:58 PM

I would be scared to let my DD go maybe if she was around 15 or 16 but at 13 is still to young to be away from home for that many days. I be panicking all the time and worrying to much what might happen if I sent her.

Barabell
by Group Mod - Barbara on Feb. 22, 2012 at 5:13 PM

Given that it's Mexico, I would say no.

My son's best friend goes to Mexico every winter break, and he's been begging for my son to go with him. His parents said that he could join them if we pay the airfare. My husband and I haven't even considered the offer given how unsafe Mexico is.

SuperLooneyMom
by Bronze Member on Feb. 22, 2012 at 10:57 PM
If she were my child. I would tell her no. Not without me and her dad. Too much violence in drugs and child abductions for ransom. As another mom posted location may be all the difference but I still wouldn't let my children go unless we were with them.
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JEmery
by Member on Feb. 23, 2012 at 3:28 PM
Nope I live about an hour and a half from the AZ/Mexico border. I wouldn't even consider it right now, there is some many murders right now there also people running large groups of the road and robbing them and they don't care who they hurt in the process.
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Kylie819
by Member on Feb. 23, 2012 at 3:31 PM
Nope.

I actually went to Juarez on a church project when I was 13. Things have changed so much down there, though, and I would not allow my daughter to go.
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