I have two 11 year old girls (not twins they are step-sisters). I am tired of the your not going to tell me what to do, I know better than you voice tones. I want to get this under control now before it gets worse. I know they are going through lots of changes and emotions are up and down. I am talking about the absolute disrespect. One daughter gave her great-grandmother attitude while she was in the hospital! They tell me the punishments are stupid and they aren't going to change anyway! How can I handle this?