My oldest son is about to turn 11. I know he's going to start hitting puberty soon. ( I am so dreading it. Why do they have to grow up so fast?) My question is, when is the right time to start talking to him about the changes he is about to go through? How do I even begin to have "The Talk" with him? I know it's probably my husband's job but he procrastinates on everything and I dont want my son to start junior high in the fall without at least some knowledge of what he will be facing soon. He's a nervous kid and doesn't deal well with change. Help me out Moms. What should I do?