DH and I both are noticing more and more that if DD (12) doesn't get what she wants when she wants it she throws a fit. She will whine, and then say "fine!" followed by stomping off. Today she was fighting with my younger DD who is 2 and it was like the older one turned into a 2 year old! DD wanted to call her friend to make sure she had what she needed for field day tomorrow at school, but she is grounded so she couldn't. She tried to convince me it was "necessary for school". I told her I would contact her friend on facebook (I am friends with both the friend and friend's mother on facebook). But it wasn't fair because I wouldn't let her find out...even though she knows she is grounded. I did call friend's mom and spoke to friend and got the info - which DD already knew.
I am just over the fits when she doesn't get her way on her time. How do y'all handle it?