Frustrated...Need some help. 11-yr old bed wetting still...
I've tried having her not drink anything at least two hours before bed, reminding her to use the bathroom before she sleeps, and then waking her up to go to the bathroom about two hours after she sleeps. Sometimes though, say she sleeps at 10pm, by midnight she's already wet and then this upsets me again. I don't know what to do about this. The pediatrician did mention buying some thing to help wake her up at night to go to the bathroom but I don't know how effective it would be and if it would even work. She's such a heavy sleeper, she cannot even hear her alarm or me trying to wake her up.
Has anyone else gone through this? I've thought about sending her to a psychologist because I thought maybe, with all she's gone through (dad leaving & brothers being born within two months of each other, plus my own PPD after the birth and my current depression & anxiety and frustrations of being a single parent) it's affected her.
Does anyone know if a psychologist/therapist would help? Any other advice would be greatly appreciated. With her almost turning 12 & the fact that she will get her period soon, it worries and frustrates me.
Thank you in advance for any and all help & advice you can give me.