My daughter is fixing to turn 11 next month. I am a single mom, raised her by myself since my divorce 10 yrs ago. she is a very quiet, shy, anxious child. she prefers to play by herself most of the time. she does have friends over sometimes. my main problem with her is the lying. if she goes somewhere she makes things up. today i let her go to a friends house and when the mom got on to her own daughter for something my dd suggested, which was to wear something over her swimsuit in the pool (some shirt that was too big) her mom simply said she wasnt allowed to wear it. my dd got mad when the mom left the room and told her friend. "well i am going home cause my mom hates your mom anyways". which i like the mom! this is not the only time she has acted out. i have pulled her from parties and other things because of the attitude and to save my self from being embarrased by things she says. i talk to her about it and does no good. i need to know how to get the lies and attitude in check. time out dont work because she likes being to herself. Help me please.