My son tends to be a bully. I don't know why. Maybe because he was in foster care before we adopted him and it was a rough home. I don't know. But evidently he has been hitting this kid at school. I didn't know anything about it until today. The parents refuse to talk to me about it, even though I made it clear that we do NOT tolerate bullying and that we will handle it, I just need them to let me know when it happens. I can't give him consequences every day just in case he hit their child. I need to know when he does it. Evidently the teacher doesn't see it happening and the other child isn't telling the teacher, so there isn't much I can do unless the parents talk to me about it. But the mom says she's too mad to talk to me. I don't get that. I'm trying to handle the problem, but I don't see how I can! If the teacher doesn't know she can't tell me. The mom won't tell me, my son won't tell me, so I don't know what to do here. Any advice? Does anyone have a child that was a little too aggressive at that age? He is in counseling and works with a behavioral therapist, but that doesn't help if we don't know when it happens. I can't really give him consequences for things that happened two weeks ago. I need to know the day that it happens. I'm just not sure what else to do here. Help!