I think kids need their sleep. That being said, my DD in first grade is in bed at 8pm. and DD in fourth is in bed at 8:30. It is straight to bed and lights out. However, I think SD in 6th needs to be in bed at 9pm. She is difficult to get up and has failed math for the last 3 years. They keep passing her because you have to fail more then one core subject to be held back. Anyhow, her mother lets her go to bed at 10pm. and has to be sleeping at 10:30. However she is up texting her dad at 10:30 telling him goodnight. She has also text after that time.
What are your opinions on bedtime for that age?