My son (10) has 3 other boys he seems to stuck to at school. All in the same class room. The teacher seperated them all. My son one day is best friends with them and the next day mad or fighting with one or all of them. Over the weekend they played at each others houses etc and everything was good. Yesterday my son was saying 2 of them were calling him fat and calling him a prick. I tried to talk to him and even suggested he choose better friends. I dont remember so much drama in 5th grade. So I get a call from the principal that my son grabbed one of these boys by the neck and threw him down resulting in scratches and bruises. The principal said it was horse play not fighting. I am so frustrated. How do you get thru to your child what a hands off policy is?