My dh is 42, and seems to be questioning our love part of our marriage. Like he wants intimacy more and wants this and that. Without getting into too much tmi I am wondering if other couples are dealing with this. My dh thinks of intimate things way too often and I have to intimate drive. I somehow cannot be all romantic like he wants or be wishy washy. I don't kiss in public and I have issues with people touching me. Yes even kids and hubby at times. And I always want to make my hubby happy but I don't change. I'd rather like the routine and he doesn't. Why does showing love for one another have to be physical or show off . I love him so much but I shouldn't have to change too much. But I don't want to loose my love. He admits to looking at girls(all) and their intimate parts. I don't look at guys. I don't need to. I'd feel dirty and gross. He reads smut and gets mad when I'm always tired.
I don't think we are ready for couples counseling but maybe going that way.
Thanks for listening