My 10 year old daughters birthday is coming up. I walk into her room and it is a disaster. No food thank god we don't allow food upstairs, but the garbage is full, clothes all over the floor, toys everywhere. This is after I told her this weekend to clean her room. I really am really annoyed at the thought of having to buy more stuff for her birthday to add to her floor collection. Would it be to harsh to tell her that I'm not buying her anything else for her birthday? I really don't know how to get it into her head that her life will run better if it is organized. I can't stand to see my money all over the floor. What would you do? I already have a car full of her stuff that I picked up off the floor last month that I am holding until I see it look like a kids room not the isles at Ross. I have taken away her phone, moved her stuff to my car, restriction, what else? I don't want to throw it away becuase then I'll have to replace her clothes.