And I'm not sure what to do if anything. He hasn't actually told us he has a girlfriend. She sent a text to him while I was updating apps on his phone(something he was aware I was doing. He knows that the phone can be scrutinized by myself or his Dad) I know he doesn't see her except at school. On the weekends he's with his mom across town. I know my stepson is smart and a good kid. I'm also not dumb enough to think that he has no life of his own and might possibly be different around his friends and this new girlfried. I don't know if my husband should have "the talk" they had a modified version last year when he was studying human development in school but what was academic then might be more practical now. I also need to say that while I love my husband very much he is quite proud he lost his virginity at 13 and that he had lots of girlfriends etc... Not something I want my son to emulate so... not sure what to do.
My step-son also has a FB acct that he doens't use much and I'm wondering if I need to beef my request for access to his accts. Just FYI we have full custody his mom has visitation only and she's a recovering alcoholic. She is struggling to get herself back togehter so I don't think this is something she is equipped to handle right now.
Suggestions, first hand info in similar situations, anything helps? Thanks Ladies! :)
on Mar. 20, 2013 at 4:22 PM