Hello - this is my first post. I have been a fp for 15 years. I have an 11 yo daughter that I've had since 8 months old that is just a sweet, kind kid. I also have an 11 yo foster daughter who I got when she was 7 (she has RAD and we will probably be adopting her within the year). They are in the same grade, different classes. The fc is very outgoing, bubbly, boy-crazy and popular. My ad is rather shy and quiet. I've noticed in the last year all my child's friends have gravitated to the fc. She gets invited on playdates, to parties, to sleepovers. The other doesn't and it breaks my heart.
I imagine I just have to let this play out but was wondering if you all had any advice (besides separate schools!)