I need some advice... 14 yo DS snoops in our bedroom. How do I know? Because we keep some higher end chocolate on the dresser just for ourselves and I found empty wrappers in his room. Although it bugs me that he takes our good stuff, the bedroom is where we keep the naughty books and toys "of a personal nature" and we have LOTS.
When we leave him home, we always close our bedroom door, but it doesn't lock. So do we start locking it (a real pain to have to use a key to get into one's own bedroom), call him on it or what? My DH says he did the same thing at that age and I guess I recall doing the same thing.
I did see the irony in finding the candy wrappers because I was in his room, but the rule in iur house is that the parents snoop everywhere(room, FB account, phone, etc) and we don't keep that a secret?
what do you think?