Daughters best friends mom doesnt like me or my daughter
I keep encouraging Kim to make other friends and not to call or text her best friend but she just doesn't understand why I keep saying this. Its gotten to a point that I will not allow Kim to call or text her friend and this creates a lot of anger and frustration for Kim. Kim then gets mad at me and we usually argue.
Kim and her friend are both 9 years old so she is too young to understand what is really going on or to see her friends moms behaviors. She just thinks her friend is busy all the time but hasn't put it together that her friends mom doesn't want them to be friends. Kim will sneak calls and texts to her friend but her calls are never answered. She may be too young to understand what's going on but she's too old to be making a fool of herself pursueing this friendship.
I never had words with the mom. She is polite to me and will talk but will not give in and let the girls be friends. I don't know what she has against me or Kim. But this situation is getting out of control. Daily Kim tries to call or text her friend and daily I have to tell her no. This is creating too much tension between us.
I honestly don't know how to handle this dilemma. I don't know what to tell kim as to why she is not allowed to contact her friend. And I don't know how to stop her from sneaking calls and texts to her friend. This is really concerning me and is beginning to anger me. If anyone has any suggestions please help. I'd appreciate any words of wisdom. I'm looking forward to hearing from some of you moms....Thank you moms!!!!