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SOME PEOPLE!! or is it me

Posted by on Aug. 1, 2014 at 11:09 PM
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I am trying very hard to let this go but here is the situation. When my son and I moved to where we are now I was friends with a man that has a daughter. We had agreed that we would help each other out in terms of, if I heard or saw anything that was of concern with his child I would tell him as well as he would do the same for me. He did contact me once in regard to my son and I thanked him and fixed the situation. Well I showed him and his wife a message their daughter had on my sons fb saying ,"f her in the pussy." Also told them their daughter was telling many many people that they smoke pot as a family together and make drug deals. I said I wanted to tell them before the wrong person caught wind of it and the law got involved. Weeelllll, now they turned it all around saying I am going to call the cops on them and now their daughter and her little group of friends are taunting and bullying my son. I'm the bad guy they blocked me and just turning everything around. They completely flew off the handle!! Im now the "B" and a liar. I cant let it go even though I know their daughter really was saying those things yet they say I should just keep an eye on my kid and quit believing rumors. Its NOT rumors 5 kids confirmed it and their daughter made a comment in front of me. Why do I care so much if them or anyone for that matter thinks Im a "B" or a liar :' -(
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M4LG5
by Valeri on Aug. 1, 2014 at 11:33 PM
Does your son still have that message?
Jazmyn1
by Member on Aug. 1, 2014 at 11:46 PM
I have it yes....but what about all the pot stuff...I was just following up on my part of the agreement wasnt i? The comment she made was in the comment section of a post my son had, that had NOTHING to do with sex AT ALL

Quoting M4LG5: Does your son still have that message?
ljmom24
by Member on Aug. 2, 2014 at 7:37 AM
Is the bullying happening just on line too? If so I know where I am that's against school anti bully policy and I'd print it all up and take into school. Provided you went back to school earlier rather then later like we here.

Sounds like someone just doesn't want to admit their little one may not be the angel they want to think. Parents can get defensive when their child or parenting is questioned.
princessmom2005
by on Aug. 2, 2014 at 11:48 AM
Print the message and take it to school. If they were good parents, they'd get on their kid for posting stuff like that and bullying. I agree with ljmom24 that parents tend to get defensive if they feel their parenting style or child(ren) is/are in question.
momtimesx4
by Member on Aug. 2, 2014 at 1:17 PM

Actually that Fuck her in the pussy/Fuck her right in the pussy came from a wanna be viral video in which the people made fake live news video in which someone would be interviewed and they would say it.  Those viral videos failed although the meme of it took off and now you see real news interviews where they say it.  Hit big time during the World Cup and local news stations were getting the person on the street interviews.

steelcrazy
by Silver Member on Aug. 2, 2014 at 10:25 PM
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I would print out the comment and send it to her parents via snail mail or hand delivery.  I don't care who else is saying it, or how popular of an expression it is, that is not appropriate for a tween to be saying.  It isn't appropriate for a teen for that matter either.

As for people saying F*** her in the p**** on the news in inerviews, I don't believe it since you can not say either of those words on the local news, so the producers would have edited that interview out.

momtimesx4
by Member on Aug. 2, 2014 at 11:13 PM

 

Quoting steelcrazy:

As for people saying F*** her in the p**** on the news in inerviews, I don't believe it since you can not say either of those words on the local news, so the producers would have edited that interview out.

 

More info at:
http://www.ora.tv/wtfark/sex-type-0_2nkpd5j9706r

When they do it live, it sometimes gets through
http://youtu.be/PclUvXVISMk

http://youtu.be/XXJYgRH6Z3c

Really big during World Cup
http://youtu.be/LVUuhzSiBJk

BBC News http://youtu.be/nP8s8vLSRaA

http://youtu.be/ZKTeCvOIcdI

This one the local station apologized via Facebook for it.
https://vine.co/v/MFluX0dULFb

 

 

Jazmyn1
by Member on Aug. 3, 2014 at 5:31 PM
Doesnt really matter WHERE it came from it was on my sons profile
Jazmyn1
by Member on Aug. 3, 2014 at 5:32 PM
NO ONE IS EVEN COMMENTING ON THE DRUG USE WOW
ljmom24
by Member on Aug. 3, 2014 at 6:11 PM
The drug stuff is hearsay. Unless I saw it with my own eyes or had creditable evidence I would report it. For all you know daughter is talking out her a$& to look cool and accusations like that could ruin a person life.

The bullying stuff if happening on line like you said has a trail.
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