I know it's what I should do, but get overwhelmed by the details. We have an 18 yr old daughter. She's a high school drop out with some college credit, got fired/laid off 7 months ago (won't tell us which) and hasn't really looked for a job since. We put her on a bus to NYC last month, she ended up in a homeless teen shelter, but again, refused to spend her days looking for work and either got kicked out or left -- she showed up here, sick and jobless.
The major problems I see are that she's spacey and unable to get herself around; she would have lost her first job sooner if she hadn't been living at home, with someone to remind her to get to work and take her there. I would kick her out again, but can't get past the images of her laying dead somewhere because she doesn't have the sense to stay safe. Also, I don't want her to hate me, I'd like to have a loving relationship with her, but making her leave again...I really am conflicted.