Last June I confronted her with something that I didn't agree with her on. Whenever I go "anywhere" from my home I go right past her home that is about a 30 to 40 minute drive. My husband and I build a home out in the country; where he is probably more happy than I am, but that's not the issue at this moment. My daughter has two children and in the past I have had to go pick them up so they could spend some quality time together. Especially in the summer with the pool. My daughter says it's too far for her to drive back and forth to. So when I know I have to go out of my surroundings, I "sometimes" call and ask if I can stop by and see her and the kids. It's usually a unexcusable no. I've lived out her 7 years and I can count on one hand how many times she has said yes. So I confronted her about it. Now she won't talk to me. AND to top it off, "I" am not allowed to put my grandchildren in my car if I'M going to be driving. Anziety medication I've been on since 1991. NOW it's a problem. Then because something else occured, I can't see my grandchildren at all. My grandsons birthday was yesterday, so my husband and I on Sautruday took his present to my son-in-laws business and dropped it off so he would have it for yesterday. As always, I'm sure they had a party for him on Sunday. Of course not invited. But they did instruct my grandson to call me at 8:30 PM last night to politely thank me for the present.~~~~I will be 62 the 26th of next month and never thought I would go out of this world like this. I was a great single mother (abandoned father when she was 3 years old) and a great if not better grandmother. I have had extensive surgery on my knee again in September, no one to take care of me (and she knew it) and a possible mini stroke, possible COPD, etc...now mal-nutritioned, and if anyone knows what RSD is that is a terminal disease. Please just type in RSD and see what it says. Right now I'm just a depressed, pain ridden, lonely woman that has so much inside me that I want to do, but either I can't or my husband doesn't want to do anything at all. So I'm just here. You think you might want to take me on as a friend? Ask most, I am a very giving and very nice person to others. Just not to myself.
Thanks for reading....Claudia
on Apr. 25, 2012 at 3:27 PM