she is getting a divorce (her idea) from a wonderful man who i love like he was my own son. she has a boyfriend who bought her a house and will soon move in with her and my granddaughter age 8. my granddaughter is my main concern. she seems excited about the move because she;s been promised a new phone a new dog and new bedroom. but she doesn't understand what the impact will be on her life. my daughter is not forthcoming at all with me. she won't let me meet the boyfriend and she just acts very secretive about the whole thing. she is 39 years old and she's acting like a teenager. i asked her yesterday what the custody agreement was and she said it's none of my buisness. there is something really fishy about all this. i would like any advice or thoughts about this. thank you very much for reading this.