I need advice. I have a grown, married daughter. She has a wonderful little family. She is a wonderful young lady--you would agree if you were to meet her. She is smart, witty, generous to a fault, loving and compassionate. She stays home with two children and lost a full term still born baby a short while back. My issue is this...she and her husband are absolute slobs. THe house is extremely dirty. NOw, not so bad the kids would ever be taken away...no bugs anything. But, the toilets, tub, kitchen, floors...everywhere...is so dirty. I have been told it could be due to depression, but this has been going on for 10 yrs. I used to go there and clean myself to help out. It became upsetting b/c they never kept it up. They have had 2 brand new homes and you would not believe what they looked like after only 1 year. I tried "guilt", "encouraging", sharing "tips", etc. I am at a loss now. I just get so upset when I go there. Anyone have ANY ideas?