Why do our adult kids feel we are just here for them to hurt?
My daughter is 19! She is generally a good person. But yesterday she was having a horrible day! She left her bedroom door open, so her Chihuahua went in and got her Victoria Secret underwear. She thought they were a pull toy apparently, and ripped them apart! (Okay it is really not funny because they are expensive, but her dog, her door, her fault!)
Then she had to wait for her brother who borrowed money from her last week. It was apparently my fault she had to wait. Not sure why! But, he never showed up. So, she called her boyfriend at 10:30 to come get her. He said if he does he will be locked out. All of the doors in his house get locked at 11pm. His stepmom has a 3year old and a 7year old. I don't blame her!
So, he decided to come get my daughter anyhow, and they were both locked out. My daughter came in my room, and said she is going to her cousins, because Dustin is locked out. I said well he can stay here on the couch. She said no this house stinks. I don't even want to stay here, let alone have him spend the night!
Okay now lets back this up! Three months ago we put her on our cell phone service. The deal was that SHE was supposed to clean the house in return for the cell phone. At the time she was living near her school, and going to college. She was supposed to come once a week and do a good cleaning. (I am not able to stand so, things like sweeping, dusting, and things of that nature are nearly impossible) She did that once. But, she has come to help do other things, and her dad keeps saying I will sweep, and I will do this and that. He works 2 jobs. So, I have been left to clean as little as I can. Of course the house that you are supposed clean stinks!!!!!
So, all though everyone (except me) seemed to gang up on her! She took it out on me. I cried myself to sleep last night. I am still crying writing this.