Still depressed over son's girlfriend
I'm really trying hard to keep my feelings about my 18 year old's girlfriend to myself but with each sleepless night I get more depressed about it. He started dating a girl who has been chasing him for 3 years. Not only does she use the F word, a word that I told him years ago that I don't like and have never heard him use, she doesn't treat her single mom well and now I found out that she likes to get drunk on occasion with her girlfriends. My son doesn't drink so he isn't around when this happens. We took her to his graduation and out to lunch afterwards, she can't even carry on a conversation. Besides all of that she weighs at least 100 pounds more than him so with all of this I am having a really hard time seeing the attraction. Of course being a boy he doesn't divulge any information about their relationship but I know he and she talk about marriage after college-more fuel for my sleepless nights. I know he is going away to college in a few months and am praying that this all goes away then but I am so frustrated that I don't know if I can keep being polite much longer and also keep my feelings in check.