It is starting to look like we are entering the beginning of the end Of Casey's "first Love". a little background info:
Casey met her boyfriend on line (he lives 5 hours away) 3 years ago. They have been dating for about 2 1/2 years. they have only seen each other in person three times. Twice she went to where he lives to see him, once he came here. They kept in contact over the years mainly via texts, phone calls, and IM.
Lately he has ben pressuring her to move out there with him, she says she is not ready to take the relationship to that level. IDK if they have had sex or not, it is none of my business and I did not ask. If she wants/wanted me to know, she would tell me. She told him earlier tonight that maybe they should stop talking for a bit untill they both can think about things and cool down a little (smart girl IMO). They did have plans for her to go out there at the end of June to spend a month with him and his family, now she is unsure if she wants to go. She does not want to go out there if he is going to coninue to pressure her about moving there. I did talk to her a little and told her that if the reason she does not want to move in with him i because she is worried about disappointing or angering us then we would be fine with her going out there but if she didn't want to because she really wasn't ready then not to let him push her into it. I have a feeling that the relationship is going to be ending soon and hope she hadles it well when it does. So far I think she is doing a great job.
Any additional advice?