I belong to quite a few groups on CafeMom. Probably 3-4 times a week I read posts that are about relationship issues. Not husbands and wives, but step-parent, step-child, parent, child, sibling, etc etc etc.
The posts are written by the one complaining (of course). They are the birth-mother and the father and step-mom are this, that, and the other thing. Or their step-children don't like them. And on and on the post complaint goes.
But does anyone ever sit back and say "wait a minute....maybe there's some truth to their feelings....maybe I am the cause of it"? I ask this in this group, because we are all a little older, and hopefully wiser. I like to think that with age, comes the ability to see what youngers can't. To understand what youngers can't.
What do you think?