I cried for almost an hour today. I was smacked with the reality that my youngest is now a ManSon instead of just a son. I think him leaving for a year to serve in Korea might have something to do with, and the fact that his girlfriend is more involved in his life than I am (not because of anything bad, probably because that's what happens when you get older.) I'm not handling the childish behavior of the girlfriend very well, and don't like seeing my son upset over it. I've been told repeatedly to mind my own business by other women who "hate their meddling mother in laws". How do you let go? How do you make yourself see your child as an adult and let go, dammit!!