21 year old Respiratory therapy student won't get a job-kicked out- I feel guilty
I have a 21 year old spoiled son who was living in our pool house. I pay his tuition and his utilities. He lives in a nice place of mine rent free. He was supposed to keep the grass cut, get a job and no girls overnight. Well, he cuts the grass when he feels like it. He says that he can't get a job because his school is too hard- he is in clinicals. He has a year and a half of school. His girlfriend is pregnant- I still won't let her stay the night. The other night she stayed over and when I confronted him about it. He said he didn't feel like bringing her home because he was taking her car to school because his vehicle wouldn't crank. When I fuss with him about getting a job he makes me feel bad because I can afford to support him and "that is what parents are supposed to do while their kids are in school." I kicked him out over a week ago( when the girlfriend spent the night) and I feel very guilty. He acts like I have ruined his life. What if he doesn't finish school?