My husband has asked my DS to do things for us that we can no longer do for ourselves - like cut down a dead tree. Even if you ask for something simple to be done, he has to "think on it" and won't commit to anything. He is 48 years old and would think he would want to help. The last few years he has changed so much. He started doing odd jobs like cutting neighbor's grass, etc., when he was about 12. Now he doesn't work, but stays home to be "Mr. Mom" to his youngest son, who is 4 years old. He lets his GF work and "bring home the bacon" when he could earn a lot more than she does. I don't get it.