Mom is home from the hospital, but her health has declined, and it wasn't even very good when she was sent home yesterday. We hired a home care company to provide someone to be there around the clock, but she won't cooperate with them or with my sister who has been her caregiver. So this evening I went over, and when the home care person said she couldn't get wet clothes off of her nor her antibiotic and no food or drink, I went in, closed the door and said let's do this, and got her changed, and a few sips of water, and her antibiotic- not nearly enough, but at least something. The home care people can't force her, and if she is shy around strangers who want to help her to the bathroom or get her more comfortable, or maybe resentful that we hired someone... Well this evening may have just been a fluke, so I'll try again tomorrow and see if I can help her out again. She still won't eat anything, though. And she must take the antibiotics. It is a major worry. She seems to feel too sick to strive to get get better.